I Don't Like How This Makes Me Feel: Red Flags I Saw on the First Date and Why I Trust My Intuition Now
I swear you can always tell a man is abusive from the first date and this is not to victim blame. abusive men can't hide it, note how I didn't say psychopathic or sociopathic men, I mean abusive. they're always so obvious and controlling and disgusting. and i swear to God it’s easier to see when you don’t listen to that nonsense rhetoric that actually centralizes men but disguises as decentralized men knowledge, when you use my simple rule of ‘ i don’t like how this makes me feel’ over internalizing subconscious coding that comes with ‘he’s just not that into you’ subtle centralizing men’s theme. when you just start saying it as ‘hey? this person is being awful to me right now’ when you switch to that thinking, you stop putting men on pedestals where you try to achieve the goal where they would actually be into you or it activates you feeling like you’d have to eventually settle because no one is ever into you for example, i knew this man was abusive or had a seriou...
